Welcome to Men’s Healthy Sexuality
You are worthy of a healthy and free life.
No matter what your destructive sexual behaviors, your faith walk, or your church attendance, we are excited you are seeking freedom and choosing hope.
We are a combination of experienced leaders, new guys just figuring it out, and everything in between, dedicated to living healthy lives free of compulsive sexual behaviors and their impacts.
Many of our guys choose to donate as a way of gratitude. If that is you, click the button below. Otherwise, READ MORE!
Join us. It does not matter where you live. You are here for a reason. Begin the journey to becoming a better man.
What Men’s Healthy Sexuality is about:
We are a group of men who have chosen to bond together to live connected, live sober and live free.
We live free, free of fear, beyond just being sober, free of compulsions, free of secrets, free of shame, because we are free to share our needs and to belong. We have learned we cannot do this alone. We tried …. repeatedly. It didn’t work.
We hold weekly open group meetings. You can attend as many as you wish, just show up at:
- Vineyard Cincinnati, 11340 Century Cir E, Springdale, OH 45246, Mondays, 7:00pm-8:30pm
- Crossroads Eastside, 4450 Eastgate S Dr, Cincinnati, OH 45245, Wednesdays, 7:00pm-8:30pm
- Crossroads Dayton, 2700 Miamisburg Centerville Rd, Dayton, OH 45459, Meeting Room C, Wednesdays, 6:00-8:00pm
- Crossroads Oakley, 3500 Madison Rd, Cincinnati, OH 45209, Wednesdays, Room KC215, 7:00pm-8:30pm
- Crossroads Mason, 990 Reading Rd, Mason, OH 45040, Thursdays, Meeting Room C, 7:00pm-8:30pm
- NEW: City Church OTR, 106 W McMicken Ave. Cincinnati, Oh 45202 Fridays, 7:00am– 8:00am
- There is also a Monday night Zoom option, please email menshealthysexuality@gmail.com for details.
Come. You know there is more life for you!
We periodically have Closed Groups, a group of set attendance over 2 years, that dramatically deepens recovery.
Our next Closed Group will start in May 2026. More info as we get closer.
If you want more information on Men’s Healthy Sexuality, please email menshealthysexuality@gmail.com.
Our group for partners of men who struggle with unwanted sexual behaviors is called Transforming Betrayal. For more information, please visit their website at transformingbetrayal.com or email: transformingbetrayal@gmail.com. If your spouse or significant other is interested in attending, please visit their website for more details. New Open group will be starting 1/8/26 thru 4/2/26 on Thursdays from 6:30pm-8pm at Vineyard Cincinnati.
TESTIMONIALS
“I have tried SA, Men’s Accountability, AA, but it was MHS that showed me how to live.” -P.S.
“I had been working recovery for 20 years in all sorts of ways, and MHS was the most powerful path for me to break out of despair. I am excited to do more in MHS!” -S.T.
“If someone told me as I was seriously thinking of driving my car into a tree to end my life, that 2 years later I would be married, sober, employed in a job I love, and in a group with the best friends I have ever had, I would have responded that’s crazy! So here I am crazily grateful for MHS.” -B.A.
“MHS has provided me the avenue to not be isolated and instead connect. To mentor and be mentored. I see MHS as the most honest, kick-ass, hardcore men’s group you would ever want to be a part of. All other church men’s groups pale in comparison, wishing only to find something as rich and freeing to your soul as MHS. MHS is manly. MHS is brave. MHS is what God wants!” -A.F.
“My life would be radically different without MHS. I would not still be married, and I would have a very different relationship with my children.”
“Coming to MHS was out of desperation. I had tried everything else that I could to try to stop my addiction to pornography and sexualizing everything. My addiction went back to when I was 11 years old, when I was shown material. Nearly 30 years later, I arrived at MHS, and I knew that I had found people who help and show me a path toward healing.”
“In MHS, I found a skilled community which was welcoming, kind, accepting, and real. I started in the Open Group, and then God provided a Closed Group that was starting the next month. And I jumped into that Closed Group. Over the next two years, with that group of guys, I brought my pain and my trauma to light and to air. I shared things with the guys in my group that I never intended to share with anyone. I found community and healing, guys who were beside me in the battle.”
“In the group, I learned to journal, how to meditate, how to be kind to myself, how to forgive, how to clear my side of the street, and so much more. I was hoping for some help in stopping certain behaviors, and I ended up being in a group that helped me find the root causes for my compulsive actions.”
“I’ve been through several Closed Groups now, and my learning continues. Nearly all of my closest friends are in MHS. With some guys I talk monthly, some weekly, and some daily. We are travelers on the journey of recovery together, and that’s something I never expected to be blessed with. I couldn’t imagine my life without MHS, and God continues to give a ROI many times more than the time and energy that I’ve invested.” -H.J.
“My story is rife with rejection, loss, obsession, pain, deceit, brokenness, attempts to break free, and stumbles back into relapse. I was abused in foster care as a young toddler in about every way imaginable. As a result, I was a violent, rage-filled, fearful, unconfident, and desperate young man. I developed early hyper-sexualized coping mechanisms to deal with the incredible amount of pain, shame, and rejection I lived with. I gave my life to Christ as a teen, went to Bible College, married the love of my life in my early 20s, and thought like any good Christian kid would, that getting married will take care of my masturbation, fantasy, porn, and other lustful proclivities. You know where I’m going…I sunk deep into porn with the advent of the internet binging several hours and times per day. I was arrested for solicitation and my face wound up on the news, as a result my life, marriage, family, ministry, and reputation were in shambles. I was shamed into joining a MHS Closed Group by a friend. Everything started to change for me then. I began to break free from the life-long spin cycle I’d been trapped in. My life, heart, mind, marriage, relationships, outlook, faith, and even my personality began to change. I had friends for the first time that I was both transparent and vulnerable with. I found a sacred community where I could grow, change, and heal at a clip that seemed more in line with what God had planned for my life all along. After nine years now, I can’t imagine my life without MHS.” -S.R.
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